You crafted your BBW dating profile, searched and found a few people you wanted to contact, but now what? Bustr offers a range of ways to break the ice and start your curvy dating journey.
Add them to your favorites
Just click the "add to my favorites" button and you can subtly let others know that you want to know more about them. This button will add your matches to your S "favorites" list, which means you can easily find and contact them when you're ready to take the next step. Combining this step with a short, friendly message is a great way to introduce yourself on a fat dating app.
Send a flirt or wink
On match.com, a wink is the equivalent of smiling across the room at someone you like. This is a gentle way to indicate that you like someone and want to chat, which is why many of our members use it for their first contact before sending a message.
Send a message
When you first send a message to your opponent, there are four things you should aim for:
1. Make your message stand out.
2.Show that you read their BBW hookup profile.
3.Give them a reason to write back.
4.Spell check it
The first thing your opponent will see is the subject line of your email, so make it stand out. Avoid the standard opening "hello" or "What do you do" Instead, choose something personal. For example, if you like the same music, you can try using the title or lyrics of a song.
For the body of your email, it's also important to show that you've read their BBW dating profile and found it interesting. Mention something specific that interests you and ask them a related question - this will encourage them to respond and keep the conversation going. Keep it short. 100 words is enough for the first message.
Once you have written the information, don't forget to check spelling and grammar. If that's not your strong suit, use a spell checker or ask a friend to check your text before you send it. First impressions count! To send your message, you will need to access the user's profile and click "email".
Use instant messaging
If you feel like you're at a stage where you can chat with your date in real time, but aren't too willing to call or meet them, it's a good idea to text them. Profile can give you a better understanding of a person and their personality. This will help you determine if you want to meet them and start chubby dating. It can also help you save time and eliminate races that don't really suit you.