For swinger couples who in search for a third to have a threesome with, they can easily have the misconception that the third is someone in their service. Even if they know that it isn’t right to think like that, but deep down in their mind, they would more or less have such an idea. Their satisfactory will always out-weight that of the third. However, as a matter of fact, the third person is just as important as the rest. If you do not pay for it, he/she should have the same amount of pleasure as the swinger couple, or he/she has the right and the reason to stop unless you understand the principles.
I have something to say about this issue. I was a third once, long before I was married. As a swinglifestyle keeper, I was often invited to have couple dating with kinds of swinger couples. Most of them are very nice and generous to me in bed. By saying generous, I mean they showed me much attention as the new blood in them. I think this is the proper gesture when in a threesome. For instance, if you have a guest in your house, it is normal that you should pay more attention to that person to show your hospitality and make sure your guest feel that he/she is welcomed. I think the case works the same in threesomes. When you invite another person in your bed, both of you should give him/her enough attention, or they might be wondering why they come.
There was one time I had an unpleasant threesome experience with a swinger couple. We met on a tinder swingers app. They seemed like a great and loving hookup couple. I think it is very important that they should have a steady and loving relationship, because I had such experience with another couple. They didn’t feel secure with each other. When the wife saw her husband penetrate me, she freaked out and got really furious. The threesome didn’t work out at last. Therefore, I cherished this quality. They seemed to like a perfect couple.
They invited me to their house. They had a really lovely and tidy house. I could see their photo everywhere. They were really two loving birds. I felt good about it. After had dinner, we started to make out in the couch. They started first and invited me in. When I was kissing the husband, the wife was trying to squeeze herself into us and then the husband just let her. He moved from me to her. Then I went to his cock. They undressed each other in front of me while I had nothing to do but watch them. They really turned each other on. It seemed that they couldn’t get away with each other. Finally, they suggested that I should step aside and watch them. I agreed, because obviously there was no room for me. When they were busy with pleasing each other, I left without them even notice that.